quinta-feira, 19 de dezembro de 2013

Yes, life sucks.

I don't believe in fairytales, I don't believe in destiny, I don't believe that our lives are planned by God since the day we're born. If it really is like that, why do we feel like crap? Why do we keep suffering?
Life is not easy.
Actually, nothing is particularly easy. Think about it..
There are days when you feel like you should stop trying, when you feel like nothing is worthy, when you think you don't deserve what you have.
When you think that your life is a mess, when you think that nothing goes as planned, when you feel like giving up on everything is your only option.
Yes, life sucks.
Sometimes you feel like no one is there, and it seems like everyone turned their backs on you.
You'll get sad, angry, stressed out. You may start having feelings that you can't explain. Or you'll just feel.. nothing at all.
But suddenly there's that one person who came up in your life, like an angel or something, to try to fix you. To try to fix your broken heart.
To help you to forget the bad things in your life, to listen to you, to be there for you no matter what.
To try to make things easier, to try to make you laugh. To try to make you smile with your eyes and not just with your mouth.
And then you realize that you are not alone after all, that you actually have people who cares about you, people who wants to see you happy. People who'll never leave you. People who you know you can count on.
People who you can call your friends, your true friends.
People who will love you forever.
And you'll know that one day you may be happy.
You will be happy.
You just have to want it.

quarta-feira, 11 de dezembro de 2013

"..recordar com carinho.."

Ao longo das nossas vidas temos aqueles momentos bons, maus, importantes, ou não (...), histórias de infância ou de adolescência que vão ficar para sempre guardados na nossa memória, e que um dia vamos querer partilhar com os nossos filhos, netos e amigos.
Não há nada como relembrar o passado. Relembrar os sorrisos, as felicidades, os triunfos e as conquistas. Relembrar aqueles que já se foram, recordá-los com carinho. Mas também, para além de relembrar, não há nada como partilhar essas memórias com quem faz parte das nossas vidas nos dias de "hoje". No meu caso digamos que seja um "hoje" do futuro, porque ainda há muito para viver e muitas memórias por criar.
Obviamente, o que nos vai ficar marcado com mais paixão e carinho são os momentos mais importantes, como por exemplo, o dia do nosso casamento, que será um dos dias mais importantes das nossas vidas e que vamos passá-lo ao lado de quem mais amamos; ou talvez uma festa de arromba(!), a nossa primeira bebedeira, uma partida que fizemos ou 'sofremos'.
Portanto, "há memórias que não esquecemos ou que não convém olvidar, quer pelo bem estar que proporcionam, quer pela importância histórica que, como tal, se deve preservar".